I’ve been reflecting on 2019, and I wanted to share the biggest thing I’ve learned. You have the power to drop everything that is not a 10 for you in your life. You do not have to be at the mercy of people’s energy or the pressure to do things because you “should” Do them and not because you want to.
You can say no you can walk away you can decide not to settle. At first, especially if you’re a people pleaser or empath it will be super hard, especially because people are used to you filling that role and putting everyone’s wants first. So when you finally say no it is going to be hard, people may stop supporting you and you may choose to leave certain roles and friendships. When this happens You’ll have to Learn to take responsibility for expectations you had for people that couldn’t be met and either learn to love them as they are and not who you wanted them to be or walk away (or both!!).
But negative response and loss does not mean you shouldn’t say no and shouldn’t have boundaries. Being able to stick through that initial transition period can be challenging but you’ll come out the other side knowing what you really want, truly respecting yourself, knowing who your true friends are, and having cleared up space to fill with things and people that are in better alignment with you. your true people will respect you, want you to have boundaries, and want you to be successful. So don’t be afraid to let go of the 1-2-3-4-5-6-7-8-& yes even the 9’s in your life to make room for the 10’s - the things that inspire enlighten support and uplift you all the time and not just on occasion or never. Instead of mourning what you’ve let go be excited about the better things that are coming to fill the space. All of you deserve to have that!
What was the biggest lesson you’ve learned this year?
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